More and more, couples are forgoing traditional weddings and choosing to elope. When my husband and I eloped in 2018, we faced many challenges as an interfaith couple. Having two weddings was out of the question and after being together for six years, we wanted to get on with spending the rest of our lives together.
Eloping allowed us the freedom to get married our way and we have absolutely no regrets.
Whether you’re facing the same challenges that my husband and I did or you’re simply weighing all of your options, here are my top five reasons why eloping might be perfect for you and your partner.
1. You want to save money and time
The average cost of a U.S. wedding is nearly $40,000, according to WeddingWire’s 2019 Newlywed report. You don’t have to shell out tens of thousands of dollars to have a dream wedding. At ElopeRVA, we can help you put together a ceremony fit with everything from custom flower arrangements to high-quality photography that won’t drain your savings account.
While you’re saving money, you’ll also be saving time. Planning a traditional wedding requires months of hassle and hard work. You’re looking at 13-18 months of planning for a traditional wedding. On the other hand, ElopeRVA can have you ready to say “I do” in a matter of weeks or even a few days for more spontaneous couples.
2. You’re in an interfaith relationship
Planning two separate weddings isn’t feasible for everyone and not all interfaith couples have the support of their families. Eloping is a great way for you and your partner to meet in the middle and create the ceremony that works best for the both of you. The opinions of others won’t be a distraction. As I stated before, eloping is about enjoying the freedom to get married your way.
3. You want adventure
Not having to worry about accommodating 100+ guests opens up your ability to get married wherever you want. You could jetset to the destination of your dreams, exchange vows and enjoy a blissful honeymoon right after. Eloping is perfect for couples that really want to get creative without breaking the bank or dealing with a lot of stress.
4. You want to focus on intimacy
Eloping allows you to strip away the pressure and anxiety that often comes with traditional weddings. You and your partner can focus on and celebrate each other in an uninhibited way. It’s incredibly hard to focus solely on your partner when you’re playing host to a large wedding. However, when you elope, your dream wedding can come to life without anyone or anything getting in the way of your most intimate moments.
5. You don’t actually like being the center of attention
If you cringe just thinking about exchanging your vows in front of a large audience, eloping is definitely a great option for you. Not everyone likes being the center of attention especially when they’re expressing their deepest feelings for their significant other. Social anxiety doesn’t have to disrupt your wedding day. Eloping creates a safe space for you to be completely vulnerable without watering down your thoughts or emotions.
Eloping opens up a world of opportunities for couples to commit their lives to one another in a way that fits who they are and what they want. If this sounds like the right step for you, learn about the services ElopeRVA offers and get in touch so we can start helping you bring your special day to life.